Charlotte Hayes, a beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, peacefully departed this world on January 12, 2026, at the FirstHealth Hospice House in Pinehurst, North Carolina. She was born on April 1, 1947, in Holzheim, Germany. Charlotte was 78 years old at the time of her passing, leaving behind a legacy of love, resilience, and unwavering dedication to her family.
Charlotte’s early life in Germany laid the foundation for her remarkable journey. After moving to the United States, she embraced her new home with open arms. While navigating the challenges of being a military wife, Charlotte demonstrated incredible strength and determination as she raised her two sons, Daniel and Anthony, across various military bases both in the US and abroad. Her commitment to her family never wavered, and during these years, she managed to complete her high school education and proudly obtained her US citizenship, showcasing her dedication to building a future for her family.
As a devoted homemaker, Charlotte supported her husband throughout his distinguished Army career, adapting to the many changes that came with military life. Her nurturing spirit created a warm and loving home for her children, instilling in them the values of hard work and perseverance.
After her sons had grown, Charlotte ventured into the workforce, finding her passion in the hospitality industry. Her career flourished, culminating in a position as a supervisor at the esteemed Pinehurst Resort Spa. Charlotte’s warmth and kindness touched the lives of everyone she encountered, and her contributions to the hospitality sector were marked by her genuine desire to make others feel welcome and cared for.
Charlotte’s family was her greatest pride and joy. She is survived by her two sons, Daniel Hayes and his wife Judy, Anthony Hayes and his wife Kelly. Her legacy continues through her six cherished grandchildren: Raven, Krystal, Emily (Matt), Tyler, Brandon, and Katie (Josh), as well as her beloved great-grandchild, Finnley. Each one of them carries with them the love and lessons she imparted throughout her life.
Charlotte’s spirit will forever be remembered for her unwavering love, her strength in the face of adversity, and her compassion for others. Her laughter and kindness will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
Charlotte requested that no services be held. Her wish was that everyone remembered her in their own special way as she remembered everyone that loved her. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to FirstHealth Hospice & Palliative Care, located at 251 Campground Rd, West End, NC 27376, in honor of the compassionate care Charlotte received in her final days.
As we celebrate Charlotte’s life, let us remember her as a remarkable woman who touched the lives of many. Her memory will live on in the hearts of her family and friends, a shining example of love and resilience. Rest in peace, dear Oma.
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Services are entrusted to Boles Funeral Home of Southern Pines.
