Gerald Murphy, 88, of Southern Pines, North Carolina, passed away peacefully at his home on Friday, October 23, 2026, surrounded by the love of his family.
Born on March 12, 1938, in Queens, New York, Gerald was the son of the late Arthur Gerald Murphy and Mary Elliott Murphy. He was the oldest of five sons and had one older sister.
Gerald served in the United States Navy before beginning his career with the Nassau County Police Department in New York. He rose through the ranks to sergeant and then lieutenant, retiring in 1991. He and his wife, Betsy, eventually settled in North Carolina.
He had a lifelong love of the outdoors. An avid surfer in his younger years, he later enjoyed skiing, biking, and golfing. He spent many winters in Montana, where he enjoyed the mountains and pursued his passion for skiing. A member of the 80+ Ski Club, Gerald remained remarkably fit and active well into his 80s.
Gerald also enjoyed restoring old homes, spending many years renovating properties and bringing new life to them.
Known for his easygoing nature and sense of humor, Gerald enjoyed good conversation, time with friends, and life’s quieter moments. He had a special love for his grandchildren, who brought him great joy. Always willing to lend a hand, he was someone family and friends could count on. He will be remembered for his kindness, his love of the outdoors, and the many good times shared with those closest to him.
Gerald is survived by his wife, Elizabeth “Betsy” Murphy; his son, Michael Scott Murphy, and his wife, Jackie, of Colorado; his daughter, Kristen Murphy Hebert, and her husband, Matthew, of Montana; and his four grandchildren, Kai, Mikayla, Caleb, and Rowan.
In addition to his parents, Gerald was preceded in death by his sister, Maureen, and his four brothers, Robert, James, Peter, and Richard.
Services will be private.
Condolences and memories may be shared with the family at www.coxmemorialfuneralhome.com.
The family has entrusted services to Cox Memorial Funeral Home & Crematory of Vass.
