Obituary for Jeffrey Lee Hess of Southern Pines

Jeffrey Lee Hess, 49, of Southern Pines, NC, formerly of Kansas City, MO, passed away unexpectedly on August 10, 2024. Born on June 3, 1975, in Kansas City, Jeffrey lived a life filled with passion, creativity, and love.

In 1992, Jeffrey moved to North Carolina, where he completed his senior year at Pinecrest High School. As an all-around athlete, he excelled in football, baseball, tennis, and wrestling. His dedication and leadership were evident early in life when he earned the prestigious rank of Eagle Scout, a testament to his commitment and character. Jeffrey also carried a lifelong love for the Kansas City Chiefs, Star Wars, tabletop gaming, and video games—passions that influenced both his personal and professional life.

Jeffrey was an entrepreneur at heart, founding the “Painting Apothecary,” where he worked as a full-time artist. His creativity knew no bounds, and his talent was widely recognized by several local shops and through continuous commissioned work. One of his notable achievements was being hired to complete a mural for Ruskin High School in Kansas City.

Above all, Jeffrey was a devoted father, son, brother, and friend. He leaves behind his beloved fiancé, Ashley Burgess, and his cherished children, Zachary Tate Hess, Avery Makinlee Hess, and Asher Dean Hess. He is also survived by his mother, Deborah Hess; his brother, Ian Hess (partner Alex Harwood); his sister, Rebekah Hennings; his brother-in-law, Dylan Hennings; and his step-niece, Rachel Vanover. He was preceded in death by his father Merle Hess and son, Ethan Cole Hess. Jeffrey’s warmth, humor, and love for those around him will be profoundly missed.

A memorial service to celebrate Jeffrey’s life will be held on Thursday, August 15, 2024, at 6:00 p.m. at Boles Funeral Home, 425 W. Pennsylvania Avenue, Southern Pines, NC 28387.  A livestream of the service will be available on Boles Funeral Home & Crematory’s Facebook page.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests memorial contributions be made in honor of Jeffrey to Ashley Burgess for the future education of his children.

Online condolences may be made at www.bolesfuneralhome.com   

Services entrusted to Boles Funeral Home of Southern Pines.   

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