Shirley O’Donnell Starkey, 79, a vibrant and resilient soul from Carthage, passed away on November 8. Born in Fargo, North Dakota, to Francis X. O’Donnell and Eleanor, Shirley’s life was as dynamic as her initials—S.O.S., a testament to the adventurous spirit she embodied.
Shirley’s career was as diverse as her interests. She navigated through various fields, from insurance and real estate to the semi-conductor industry and airline Industry. Her belief that “life is full of choices” guided her through these endeavors and shaped her approach to life’s challenges.
In 2007, Shirley moved to Moore County, where she, alongside her daughter and son-in-law, purchased a bed & breakfast. She continued to thrive in the real estate industry, contributing her energy and enthusiasm to her new community. Her battle with multiple types of breast cancer over the years was marked by extraordinary strength, as she defied expectations and lived far beyond initial prognosis.
Shirley is survived by her children: Deborah, David, Michael Donohue (Jennifer), and Ashley Baker (Matt); her grandchildren: Jacklyn, Jessica, Kristin, Kevin, Sarah, Indy, and Macy; and other family. She is preceded in death by her parents and her sister Karen.
Shirley’s love for her country and her family was evident in all she did. In honor of her life, the family requests donations be made to Kind Souls, Inc. or encourages acts of kindness towards others.
Shirley will be remembered for her strong spirit, her unwavering love, and her belief in the power of choice and kindness. Her memory will continue to inspire those who had the privilege of knowing her.
Online condolences may be made at www.BolesFuneralHome.com
Services are entrusted to Boles Funeral Home of Southern Pines.
